
Love, Presence, and the Practice of Letting Go đ§ââď¸đ
Jun 14, 2025
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Last week, I experienced one of the most joyful, emotional, and meaningful days of my life: I had the incredible honor of officiating my daughterâs weddingâa role I never imagined Iâd play, and one that filled my heart beyond words. It was the greatest honor of my life. Watching her begin this new chapter, surrounded by love, laughter, and community, was one of the most joyful and moving days Iâve ever experienced. To say it was an honor doesnât quite capture it. Standing there with my daughter and her new husband, witnessing their vows and speaking words that honored their journey, I felt deeply grounded and utterly full of emotion.

In the days since, Iâve found myself reflecting not just on the ceremony, but on the emotional landscape it brought with it: overwhelming joy, profound gratitude, a sense of letting go, and the quiet ache that comes with transition. After months of planning, of being in my âmother-of-the-bride era," it was all done. As any parent knows, these milestones are layered. They mark not just a beginning for our children, but a shift in our own identities too.
I began to make connections to the experiences Iâve had with practicing and teaching yoga. Yoga teaches us to be present with what is. To stay grounded in the breath when life feels like too much. To hold space for joy and release. To soften our grip and trust the process of unfolding. Officiating the wedding reminded me that these arenât just ideas we explore in practiceâthey are skills we call upon in life.
Who knew that yoga would have anything to do with my ability to be present and grounded in the moments I was called upon for this milestone event?
Whether weâre flowing through a familiar sequence or navigating a brand-new role, yoga gives us tools to stay connected to ourselves and to others. It reminds us that presence is the greatest gift we can offer.
The Practice of Letting Go
In yoga, we often speak of Aparigrahaânon-attachment. Itâs not about detachment or distance; itâs about trust. Itâs about releasing control and allowing life to move as it will, with love and grace.
Thatâs what this wedding called for. A letting go of the little girl I once held, and an embrace of the incredible woman she has become. A stepping back, so she could step forward. A trust in the ability to stay grounded when life introduces a new season.
Practice With Me
To honor this experience and what it brought up, Iâd like to share one of my favorite practices. Itâs one that holds space for reflection, grounding, and releaseâperfect if youâre navigating a transition of your own, or simply want to reconnect to your heart and breath.
đĽ This flow is intentional, with space to pause, breathe, and feel. I hope it supports you in whatever season youâre in.
Final Thoughts
Officiating my daughterâs wedding reminded me that life doesnât pauseâit flows. And in that flow, weâre invited to show up fully: in love, in presence, and sometimes, in the practice of letting go.
Yoga helps us with that. On the mat, and off.
Thank you for being part of this journey with me.
With love and breath,
Sandra












I'm so happy for you. I miss you a lot and hope that went really well. She looks so amazing and so do you. You are a great mother and so many mothers can learn a thing or two from you. Love you a lot, and I love the yoga videos. Thanks for everything you do.đ